THE BOOK: BONDED
The Neurodivergent’s Guide to the Healing Nature of Kink
In BONDED, Dr. Dolly Marie looks at the ways kink can create structure, communication, regulation, and deeper understanding for neurodivergent people while challenging the shame and assumptions that often surround sexuality.
Part education, part exploration, and deeply human, BONDED invites readers to get curious about what they want, why they want it, and what their desires may be trying to tell them.
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Inside the book
Desire & Exploration
What we want, what we think we should want, and what desire can teach us about ourselves.
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Power, fantasy, sensation, roles, ritual, consent, and why kink can hold meaning far beyond the act itself.
Kink & BDSM
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
The vulnerability of asking for what you want, setting boundaries, and allowing yourself to be fully seen.
Trust
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Power
How control, surrender, autonomy, identity, and relationships influence the ways we experience intimacy.
A Peek Behind the Covers
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Changes in desire, difficulty becoming aroused, differences between partners, or uncertainty about what you want.
Desire & Arousal
Sensation, sensory needs, regulation, pleasure, discomfort, and learning how to listen to your body differently.
The Body
A New Way to Understand Intimacy
The bonded framework
BONDED gives readers a framework for looking beyond labels and understanding the emotional, relational, physical, and psychological forces shaping intimacy.
We learn so much on how to hide desire. Far less about how to understand it.
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU IF
Build Confidence and Communication
Develop stronger boundaries, clearer language, deeper self trust, and more confidence asking for what you need.
Build Confidence and Communication
Develop stronger boundaries, clearer language, deeper self trust, and more confidence asking for what you need.
Build Confidence and Communication
Develop stronger boundaries, clearer language, deeper self trust, and more confidence asking for what you need.
Build Confidence and Communication
Develop stronger boundaries, clearer language, deeper self trust, and more confidence asking for what you need.
Build Confidence and Communication
Develop stronger boundaries, clearer language, deeper self trust, and more confidence asking for what you need.
You don't have to Identify as Kinky to find yourself somewhere in bonded
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